"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Advice with a CoWorker

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newyorkman

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Gentlemen,

Your advice is needed. I have a female coworker that had been giving subtle IOIs over the last few months, such as suggesting we hang out together at the company picnic, telling me she needs to find a husband, and hinting that she finds me attractive.

I didnt know her at the time all that well and was into another girl so I gave minimal effort. Things have changed and I am looking at pursuing this.

Things cooled off for a couple months and I avoided her. Now we work closely together and I have noticed the following things. I catch her looking at me when I am not paying attention, good eye contact when we talk and she teases me back when I tease her. I brought up a specific restaurant in the city and she mentioned that we should check it out sometime. The only drawback is that she completely ignores me in group settings at work (maybe a good sign actually).

I need your advice. Are these signs of interest and should I take the plunge and move this to the next stage?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Your situation sounds like the exact same thing I'm dealing with. I actually went out with her after work one night and had a great time. I've asked her out since then but she's turned me down both times.
 
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