"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Advice to Young Men - From an Old Man

eyedogg

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Karma - thanks for stepping to this foolish bastard - Demon (aka wannabe DJ).

Demon - go phuck yourself you phucking prick. Seriously, who in there educated and mature mind would want to pick a fight with Francisco or Karma. These guys are mod's and contribute WAAAAAAAAAY more then you.

Your weak attempt at discrediting those two guys in other posts only proves how enferior you feel.

You lack respect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demon

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eyedogg said:
Karma - thanks for stepping to this foolish bastard - Demon (aka wannabe DJ).

Demon - go phuck yourself you phucking prick. Seriously, who in there educated and mature mind would want to pick a fight with Francisco or Karma. ... These guys are mod's and contribute WAAAAAAAAAY more then you.
Me? Pick a fight? That was the old me... Seriously, I've been banned, what, three times in the six years I've been here. Allen, the founder of SoSuave.com, has apparently deemed me valuable enough to have restored my membership three times as well, personally. I think that makes me the member with the most bans and lifted bans.

I helped shaped the rules of this forum and, in the process, helped removed some of the worst offenders of the DJ philosophy. I even recently, within the last year, posted a popular, and according to many, incredibly enlightening article called "What Makes Us (DJs) Different." That's not including all the private messages I've received over the years from people seeking my personal help. So before you go down that rabbit's hole any further, get a grip on the time line.

Speaking of time lines, the only reason why Karma is being the way he is, is because I corrected him by defending you from being further assailed by those who consistently failed to carefully read your thread. Yes, that's right. You heard me correctly. His ego was hurt. Boo hoo. I corrected a mistake that has led you to be harshly criticized by a good number of people here because they think you wrote something you did not and that you even said you didn't write!

No good deed goes unpunished, I guess.

Your weak attempt at discrediting those two guys in other posts only proves how enferior you feel. You lack respect.
Uh huh. That must be it! I feel "enferior." I do believe you meant "inferior." Oops, did I strike a nerve? Was your ego hurt, too? Sad face. Sad face. Tears. I guess I'll run home to mommy now and tell her the kids at school don't like me. *sniffle*

By the way, I do lack respect. I lack respect for those who've yet to earn my respect. And believe me, you need to do a hell of a lot more than regurgitate material by anonymous authors from anonymous friends to be an earner. Even if you're not in that exclusive in-crowd, I'll still stand up for you and your right to say or share whatever, even after what you've said to me.
 

Someone Much cooler

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eyedogg-i thought it was a good post. One important thing you forgot, was the issue of money. Its imperative to have the means to support yourself.

KarmaSutra-"Brother please lose the hip gangsta-wannabe smack like: "What up all!"
children-children, lets not make fun of people. You will learn that in this world there r different people, different slang words for different meanings, in different places.
 

eyedogg

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Demon said:
Me? Pick a fight? That was the old me... Seriously, I've been banned, what, three times in the six years I've been here. Allen, the founder of SoSuave.com, has apparently deemed me valuable enough to have restored my membership three times as well, personally. I think that makes me the member with the most bans and lifted bans.

I helped shaped the rules of this forum and, in the process, helped removed some of the worst offenders of the DJ philosophy. I even recently, within the last year, posted a popular, and according to many, incredibly enlightening article called "What Makes Us (DJs) Different." That's not including all the private messages I've received over the years from people seeking my personal help. So before you go down that rabbit's hole any further, get a grip on the time line.

Speaking of time lines, the only reason why Karma is being the way he is, is because I corrected him by defending you from being further assailed by those who consistently failed to carefully read your thread. Yes, that's right. You heard me correctly. His ego was hurt. Boo hoo. I corrected a mistake that has led you to be harshly criticized by a good number of people here because they think you wrote something you did not and that you even said you didn't write!

No good deed goes unpunished, I guess.


Uh huh. That must be it! I feel "enferior." I do believe you meant "inferior." Oops, did I strike a nerve? Was your ego hurt, too? Sad face. Sad face. Tears. I guess I'll run home to mommy now and tell her the kids at school don't like me. *sniffle*

By the way, I do lack respect. I lack respect for those who've yet to earn my respect. And believe me, you need to do a hell of a lot more than regurgitate material by anonymous authors from anonymous friends to be an earner. Even if you're not in that exclusive in-crowd, I'll still stand up for you and your right to say or share whatever, even after what you've said to me.

Demon - I will apologize to you here publicly. I quickly read the exchange between you and Karma. Karma has gone out of his way to PM me and create a personal realationship. So in quickly reading the exchange, I admit that I overlooked you defending me, and only noticed what I read to be insulting to Karma. So again, I apologize for using harsh words towards you and not thanking you for the defense.
 
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