Advice to those still in highschool.

[Audiophile]

Hey guys, I'm currently 18, and a freshman in uni, and I want to give you guys a bit of advice that I feel will help out, because I know it helped me a great deal.

I'll cut to the chase, "forget women, improve yourself first". It's as simple as that. You guys are still in highschool, which you will soon realize is very different to the real world when it comes to picking up women. Yeah, I realize you guys all want to be players and all that, I know, I was exactly the same.

So, why should you forget women? Simply put, if you aren't happy with yourself, you'll never be happy with a girl in your life. No matter what you think, you won't be "completed", or any of that nonesense. I know it's been said a lot, but I feel I have to stress this point. Besides, picking up girls in highschool is an entirely different game compared to everywhere else. Intelligence is not as valued, nor is personality, as much as looks or popularity.

So, what should you do instead? Educate yourself, get in good shape, become a better YOU, and the women will soon follow. I'm not telling you to completely ignore women and not go after them, trying to get girls is a crucial learning process that will help you develop character. However, your main focus should be on improving your own being.

Highschool is a learning experience, you have plenty of time to get better at picking women up, but developing good habits for yourself early will set you up for the rest of your life.

Read this post - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24494 , it pretty much encompasses all I want to say on this subject.

That's all I have to say. Merry christmas to all

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I like this!
You're very right.
However, noone should use this post to think "I don't need to get after chicks now." Procrastination is BAD. You're just replacing one kind of fear with another.
Simply do not focus so much on chicks (this mindset will draw in chicks anyway), and use the extra time and focus to improve yourself.

 

[Twitch]

I like this!
You're very right.
However, noone should use this post to think "I don't need to get after chicks now." Procrastination is BAD. You're just replacing one kind of fear with another.
Simply do not focus so much on chicks (this mindset will draw in chicks anyway), and use the extra time and focus to improve yourself.

Nicely put, Noir. This is how I feel as well. I espouse weightlifting.

 

[bluenorther]

I do some educational programs for the middle schools nearby, and I had to ask one of the teachers if I was seeing what I thought: that there were half again more girls than boys in my town. She assured me, it's the case. The girls are gorgeous, too.
Must be something with their mother's diets; I've read that can make them have more girls.
It makes me wonder how they'll manage the dating in high school-- it's definitely a buyer's market, and no limit to the possibilities. The girls will be throwing themselves on guys, and guys won't have to learn anything about being serious DJs.