"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice to be more social ?

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Zenboy93

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Hey guys ! I've been here for awhile and realised I had a problem with socializing in HS.
Basically I just don't know what to talk about or how to start a conversation...
I recently took the personality test and realised I was an IFSP, and I wanted to see what you guys think about it and if the people around could give me some advice to improve and some exercices to progress.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A prime candidate for the DJ boot camp.
 
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What is the Dj Boot camp ? Haha sorry may seem a bit stupid I don't know well the forums !
 
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search, read and put yourself out there.
 
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Aren't you already socializing? You see 100 hundreds of people a day in high school. There is a forum for HS for any specific advice needed. Read up the bible, and try, you will see what works. The DJ bible has everything to give you a frame to build on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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