"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Advice to be more social ?

Zenboy93

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Hey guys ! I've been here for awhile and realised I had a problem with socializing in HS.
Basically I just don't know what to talk about or how to start a conversation...
I recently took the personality test and realised I was an IFSP, and I wanted to see what you guys think about it and if the people around could give me some advice to improve and some exercices to progress.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Konada

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A prime candidate for the DJ boot camp.
 

Zenboy93

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What is the Dj Boot camp ? Haha sorry may seem a bit stupid I don't know well the forums !
 

PokerStar

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search, read and put yourself out there.
 

PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
Aren't you already socializing? You see 100 hundreds of people a day in high school. There is a forum for HS for any specific advice needed. Read up the bible, and try, you will see what works. The DJ bible has everything to give you a frame to build on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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