Advice: This Girl My Friend Is Chasing

[Don The Magic Juan]

Me and my friend are Freshman, I'm 15 years old and he is turning 16 years old in a few weeks. This girl is a Junior, with a boyfriend and is considered by everyone that knows her to be the hottest girl in our school. She's gorgeous, like model quality. Although she's ****y and knows she's hot she is really nice. One day she came up to my friend and gave him a hug in the hallway. Then a few days later my friend, and my other friend were all in her car talking and hanging out with her (which it is really cool of her to even be hanging out with Freshman), my friend asked for her number and she was really hesitant to give it to him but eventually gave in. Then she gave my other friend a ride home (she's friends with his older sister) and she gave me a ride home and she didn't even know me. After she dropped my friend off she told me to move up to the front seat. Even though she didn't know me she was talking to me like we were good friends. She asked me about my girlfriend, etc. My friend called her right in the middle of the ride and we talked about it, she was shocked that he called and thought it was a joke. She was like "I can't believe he just did that, is he kidding". She seemed totally uninterested in him and I said "Give him a chance, one date can't hurt you". When she realized I was serious and wasn't going to make fun of my friend she got serious and said "I could never go out with him, I'm best friends with [some kid that really doesn't like my friend]". She dropped me off at my house and I said "Thank you". Now that was like a month ago, today my friend called her to try to get me a ride home and she was like "I would but my cars getting repaired right now", then my friend started talking to her and was like "What you doing this weekend? Maybe we should get together and do something", this girl is quite popular so she does have a lot of stuff to do. She works at a grocery store and she said, that she had to work on Friday and Saturday. So my friend said maybe some other time and she seemed to agree. What do you think of this situation, and do you think she is trying to avoid him?

 

[Serialized3]

There needs to be an age requirement here like on the mature man forum...

In short - No, a hottie junior chick with a boyfriend and status is NOT going to date some freshman dweeb with no status. Jesus.

 

[CORVETTE06]

first off, you should post in the high school forum. Not because i'm trying to be an *******, but because most of us are much older, and out of highschool. It's better to talk to kids your own age cuz they understand highschool situations better....

However, this situation is easy. She sounds like she thinks who she is. Why are you putting her on a pedastal? forget her, she isnt worth the time. You can find 1,000 other 'hot' girls.

Let me tell you something...after high school, the 'cool' kids turn into losers, and the 'nerdy' kids become the cool ones and get all the girls. Just because this 'hot popular' chick isnt giving u or your friend attention, doesn't mean u aint good enough or theres something wrong with ur friend. Just use ur time in highschool as practice with chicks, and dont take it too seriously. Wait till after highschool my man, thats when all the girls come, and the real games begin.

90% of the 'hot girls' in my highschool arent hot anymore.

 

[Don The Magic Juan]

There needs to be an age requirement here like on the mature man forum...

In short - No, a hottie junior chick with a boyfriend and status is NOT going to date some freshman dweeb with no status. Jesus.

We got status, me and my friend are quite popular and do very well with girls. I'm just curious about this girl since she's like considered the hottest girl in a school and the conversation we had on the phone seemed too good to be true.

 

[Don The Magic Juan]

first off, you should post in the high school forum. Not because i'm trying to be an *******, but because most of us are much older, and out of highschool. It's better to talk to kids your own age cuz they understand highschool situations better....

However, this situation is easy. She sounds like she thinks who she is. Why are you putting her on a pedastal? forget her, she isnt worth the time. You can find 1,000 other 'hot' girls.

Let me tell you something...after high school, the 'cool' kids turn into losers, and the 'nerdy' kids become the cool ones and get all the girls. Just because this 'hot popular' chick isnt giving u or your friend attention, doesn't mean u aint good enough or theres something wrong with ur friend. Just use ur time in highschool as practice with chicks, and dont take it too seriously. Wait till after highschool my man, thats when all the girls come, and the real games begin.

90% of the 'hot girls' in my highschool arent hot anymore.

Nice advice, thanks.