"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Infern0

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I'v posted about this girl before but she keeps on popping up.

HB9 imo.

Dated for a while, hooked up several times, she stayed over a bunch was great but also up and down.

She went back to her ex

Tried to still msg me i said not keen for chit chat if she's back in an ltr she says she understands.

She drops breadcrumbs i ignore

Last week asks if i want to go for dinner i decline

Asked me again last night, i check her social media shes posting how in love she is etc so obviously i ignored

Sends bitchy message i ignore

Today is replying to my snapstories.

Keep ignoring right?

(My mate said message her boyfriend and ask him to get her to stop messaging me)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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btownbuck2012

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Easier said than done, but yes continue to ignore her. You of all people know the type of damage a woman like this can do.
 

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She is not trustworthy enough to ever be more than a fb. Even at that, nothing says she isn't fvcking 5 other dudes behind her bf's back. Unless you want to get in that potential STD mess, Id tell her to go kick rocks. Possibly anonymously send the bf a few screen shots of her texts on the way out. That's what these sloots deserve.
 

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She is not trustworthy enough to ever be more than a fb. Even at that, nothing says she isn't fvcking 5 other dudes behind her bf's back. Unless you want to get in that potential STD mess, Id tell her to go kick rocks. Possibly anonymously send the bf a few screen shots of her texts on the way out. That's what these sloots deserve.
^^^ Best advice ever.
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Ignore. Don’t talk to her boyfriend, they’ll only stir up more drama because now you’re bringing in someone else into this. You’re doing good so far. Just don’t give in.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Keep ignoring or just respond: "Not Interested"

If she blows up your phone write her "I don't think your boyfriend will like me sending him your message, so stop, not interest"

If she disrespect you more... send the boyfriend the information. That road should be last resort, cause drama likely will happen... and he might actually be Beta enough to attack you
 

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You care too much, way too soon. I wouldn't say ignore, I'd say learn to understand the value of this woman to you. You banged a few times, so what. You're catching romantics for some on who doesn't deserve it.

The thing I've learned over the last year is to put romance aside in my own mind. For the average man, romantic inclinations rise from good looks, a couple of rolls in the hay and a bit of kissing and cuddling.

The savvy guy learns to go beyond even screening; to the point where he monitors women for green flags, rather than asking himself how to react to red flags. There's a whole world of difference.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Bang her, have fun and bang others at the same time. If you can bang one 9/10, you can bang 5 more.

Women are the gate keepers of sex, men are the gate keepers of commitment. Get that through your thick skull.
 

RangerMIke

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She went back to her ex
Yep you are done. Never try to make anything work with a chick than goes back to an ex. Your gut is right forget about this girl.

(My mate said message her boyfriend and ask him to get her to stop messaging me)
Don't do this, she is only going to lie to her BF and he will believe her... She will accuse you of stalking her and you'll get a visit from the police to cover up her lies. Just keep ignoring her, eventually she will leave you alone.
 

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I'v posted about this girl before but she keeps on popping up.

HB9 imo.

Dated for a while, hooked up several times, she stayed over a bunch was great but also up and down.

She went back to her ex

Tried to still msg me i said not keen for chit chat if she's back in an ltr she says she understands.
Mistake. You win with women through your actions, not your words. I would have kept in short and sweet, not put her head under water.

Come on bro, you have been here long enough.

She drops breadcrumbs i ignore

Last week asks if i want to go for dinner i decline

Asked me again last night, i check her social media shes posting how in love she is etc so obviously i ignored

Sends bitchy message i ignore

Today is replying to my snapstories.

Keep ignoring right?

(My mate said message her boyfriend and ask him to get her to stop messaging me)
Your mate is an idiot.

‘Are you still sleeping with your ex?’ No? OK let’s meet for dinner.’
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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