Advice regarding shy guy and finding that special lady?

[crackers444]

I am wondering what advice you can give me on finding a girlfriend for a guy like me who is very shy. I am a good looking intelligent guy, who only seems to get recognized for looks and intellect online. The girls I seem to be attracted to either have bf's/lifestyles don't match mine/live far away or I chat with them online and then they don't come online as much(such as girl that I chatted with my internet girlfriend if you may). We chatted constantly online for hours on end and for a few months, then recentley she hasn't been online in almost a month. I sent her a birthday card/postcards/gift card and hasn't responded back yet. We share the same birthday/personality/interests. Any advice would be greatly appreciated regarding my situation!

 

[Mr. Wolf]

"I am a good looking intelligent guy, who only seems to get recognized for looks and intellect online."



There is no other shy guy.



You claim that you are being recognized for looks and intellect ONLINE.. Now, that's because women are using you as their little online emotional tampon. In other words, you are their girl friend.. Eventually you show romantic interest in them and they loose interest.. That is because you're just a girlfriend, you have a pvssy, they have a pvssy too, it's not interesting.. All the while ONLINE.. Not interesting!


You are pretty desperate as well. You want a girlfriend. You don't just a one night stand, you actually want a girl that will be with you for ever and ever until the end of time.. A girlfriend.. You didn't even met a b!tch in real life.


For a girl to become your girlfriend she must qualify for that. Anything less is desperation.


www.bristollair.com << You go to that website and you learn.

 

[everywomanshero]

First off you are not genetically a shy guy. You may or may not have been predisposed genetically to such a thing, but your environmental conditions growing up caused you to label yourself as a shy guy. If you want, and with great effort, you can change this feeling. Many others before you have.

Second, if you just want to increase the chances of finding a girlfriend, I suggest you look for religious women or small town girls. In my experience their standards are quite different from the type of women most guys on the site are probably going for. Many of them have some strange habits & such, but I do think they are more likely to go for someone who is a little quirky.

Ultimately, I think it would just be easier to become more outgoing & attractive to all women (which would also increase your success with these women too), but you can probably get by OK as is.

Go to religiously affiliated universities and try to meet women in the library or courtyard. You'd be surprised how easy this is to accomplish. You can also find women in local bookstores or those aweful sites like match or eharmony. Especially women I've talked to who used eharmony tended to be looking for "love" rather than a hookup, which is similar to you it sounds. Good Luck. Should be easy.

 

[DJDamage]

I am wondering what advice you can give me on finding a girlfriend for a guy like me who is very shy. I am a good looking intelligent guy, who only seems to get recognized for looks and intellect online. The girls I seem to be attracted to either have bf's/lifestyles don't match mine/live far away or I chat with them online and then they don't come online as much(such as girl that I chatted with my internet girlfriend if you may). We chatted constantly online for hours on end and for a few months, then recentley she hasn't been online in almost a month. I sent her a birthday card/postcards/gift card and hasn't responded back yet. We share the same birthday/personality/interests. Any advice would be greatly appreciated regarding my situation!

read the book of Pook: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf

 

[redspicyflag]

You'll never find a special lady online

Take the plunge and check out the dj bible in my sig

Book of Pook is a must