Advice really needed, confusing

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

cNfny

Senior Don Juan

Jul 2, 2007

just want to say thanks for all the replies even the ones puttin into perspective that i should move on.

this has made me feel real confident and realize that having power over girls is a lot more exciting than chasin that one who made you feel weak. by doing this i have actually changed her mood in little steps that i can notice and build to my ego. for example this was the last convo we just had:

me: well, it's time to make something to eat
her: no it's time to go bike riding
me: not yet, i'll keep you posted
her: you're such a one-sided friend
me: sucks right?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.