"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice preferred: Next Day too early to get together with a chick?

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AFCToDJSlowButSurely

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I got this J-Girl's number at school yesterday, she is into me bigtime..i noticed she requested me on facebook today already as well. i did some light kino while talking and she hit me back lightly when i mocked her for whining about her paper lol

Would inviting her to come with me to a Mariners game tonight be too fast and come off as supplicating in your learned opinions? some guys i know are going and i can probably go with them.. is it better to wait till later in the week and invite her to a party on friday or saturday?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2crudedudes

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I'd say its too much too early. Consider baseball games are expensive affairs (just went to one on Friday and was set back about $50 in hotdogs and brews), and the fact that you just got her number yesterday.

You don't wanna risk sounding too available, even if she shows strong interest. If you show similar interest levels as her, she might feel like you're an easy catch, and lose hers completely.
 
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AFCToDJSlowButSurely

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hey thanks bro, i agree its too early, well i shouldnt spend too much as im eating before and the tix will be outfield so $10. besides its too late tonight to contact her anyway. thanks for your help.
 
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