Advice pls

[Walking Anomaly]

Hey all? How's life treatin ya's?

Anyway, i got this chick. A while ago i invited her out with some friends and told her to bring some of her friends too. She said "definitely," but then cancelled at the last minute, so i told her that that wasnt a very nice thing to do. I was a bit more harsh than the last sentence depicts, i don't remember exactly what i said, but i wasn't an a-hole, and basically i let her know not to disrespect. Anyway after that i stopped tryin with her as to the fact that she stopped comin around to me. Now, about a month later she's startin to come back around. Personally it doesnt really matter to me much . But then why post this, you ask? Because i would like a second opinion, because i would try again.
Also, if i would try again, should i jus play it like the previous incident never happened?

Anyone have their own insight/advice/answer they'd share?
Much Appreciated. Peace.


You reep what you sew...

 

[Alexis Zorba]

My advice

My advice: She is not worth it. I never go out with a girl that cancelled at the last minute. But then that's just me...

 

[Jerky Boi]

I can't stand it when girls do that. Props to telling her what's on your mind though. I try to avoid trying to set up another date after a girl cancels. By the way, do you know why she cancelled in the first place?

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Thanks guys, i can see where you're comin from. And no i still dont know why she initially cancelled. When she did it at the last minute she just said that she couldnt go, i never thought to ask why at that time cause i was probably more focused on tellin her that what she did wasn't cool.

Let me know if you guys got more to say. Much appreciated.

Peace.


You reep what you sew...

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Anyone with more sagely advice?

Peace

 

[Kelso]

Did she have a legit reason for canceling? Do you even know why she did, or did she even offer a reason? Someone who would cancel on you at the last minute and didn't even give you a reasonable excuse without being asked isn't worth it. If she did have a good excuse and apologized, I see no reason in not giving her a second chance.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Good point Kelso

She told me that i had asked her too late and that she had already made plans for that night. But then why says, "definitely"? She said next time i should give her more notice, since i was invitin her to something on that same night. She did apologize, multiple times.

Peace


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[Kelso]

Originally posted by Walking Anomaly
Good point Kelso

She told me that i had asked her too late and that she had already made plans for that night. But then why says, "definitely"? She said next time i should give her more notice, since i was invitin her to something on that same night. She did apologize, multiple times.

Peace


You reep what you sew...

How is it that you asked her too late when she already accepted the invitation to be with you? Sounds to me like she blew off your plans for something/someone else.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Thats exactly what I think too, which is why i started this post. I wanted to ask if it would be wise to give her another shot considering she apologized more than once, or not give her another considering she said yes and then blew me off.

Know what i mean?
much appreciated

Peace


You reep what you sew...

 

[high nrg]

is she sincereley sorry?

if u think she is then give her a second shot.

btw, you should jsut make "you reap what you sew" your signature. its be a lot easier than typing it in everytime

 

[Luscious]

I'd probably move on.

Even if it was just an innocent mistake the first time, I wouldn't be cool with the fact that she didn't consider you important enough to actually CHECK her plans, and cancel with you at the last minute.

I just don't have a high tolerance for stuff like that.