"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Johnsmith8899

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Wrote a post about this girl but I have. Quick question to see what the true DJs out there would do. Long story short been talking with a girl in Canada who may or may not come to visit me again here in Florida. She’s usually chasing me with good morning texts and she everyday but the past few weeks she’s been slightly different (telling me she’s hanging Whwre her ex might be and not returning calls to next day), u know typical bull**** females pull (possible tests). She went radio silent for a day and a half out of the blue (I didn’t chase) and she Texted me with a real nice good morning text today ( like she used to). I feel kind of turned off with the games but feel like an ******* if I don’t respond to such a nice text. She was possibly coming to see me but waiting very long to book her flight( makes me feel she’s unsure about it). Should I blow off the text and continue to see other women( as I feel she’s seeing other men) or give this chick a benefit or a doubt and return her text and continue... what’s the true DJ move to have this chick around my finger not just today but for good. ;) My normal behaviors in past relationships that turned out to not work out would be to respond a few hours later or whatever only to find myself in a game the rest of the week with my calls not returned and all that stuff we all encounter.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HankHill

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If anyone knew how to make any chick wrapped around their fingers they wouldn't have time/motivation/reasons to post here lol

Me? I would respond the next day...showing she now has a lower priority. The subsequent texts I would wait 6 to 7 hrs but the same day unless she texts too late like 7pm or after. It's what I'd do because blowing her completely off only serves to get rid of her and what does that do for your ultimate goal? Then again I don't consider myself a true DJ etc.
 

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If anyone knew how to make any chick wrapped around their fingers they wouldn't have time/motivation/reasons to post here lol
Time, I have a couple of seconds...

Tick tick

well, gotta go!:p
 
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