"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Johnsmith8899

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Wrote a post about this girl but I have. Quick question to see what the true DJs out there would do. Long story short been talking with a girl in Canada who may or may not come to visit me again here in Florida. She’s usually chasing me with good morning texts and she everyday but the past few weeks she’s been slightly different (telling me she’s hanging Whwre her ex might be and not returning calls to next day), u know typical bull**** females pull (possible tests). She went radio silent for a day and a half out of the blue (I didn’t chase) and she Texted me with a real nice good morning text today ( like she used to). I feel kind of turned off with the games but feel like an ******* if I don’t respond to such a nice text. She was possibly coming to see me but waiting very long to book her flight( makes me feel she’s unsure about it). Should I blow off the text and continue to see other women( as I feel she’s seeing other men) or give this chick a benefit or a doubt and return her text and continue... what’s the true DJ move to have this chick around my finger not just today but for good. ;) My normal behaviors in past relationships that turned out to not work out would be to respond a few hours later or whatever only to find myself in a game the rest of the week with my calls not returned and all that stuff we all encounter.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HankHill

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If anyone knew how to make any chick wrapped around their fingers they wouldn't have time/motivation/reasons to post here lol

Me? I would respond the next day...showing she now has a lower priority. The subsequent texts I would wait 6 to 7 hrs but the same day unless she texts too late like 7pm or after. It's what I'd do because blowing her completely off only serves to get rid of her and what does that do for your ultimate goal? Then again I don't consider myself a true DJ etc.
 

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If anyone knew how to make any chick wrapped around their fingers they wouldn't have time/motivation/reasons to post here lol
Time, I have a couple of seconds...

Tick tick

well, gotta go!:p
 
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