Advice Please!

[chinwaggler]

Right basically there is a girl who I used to go to school with, she's two years younger than me, used to share the school bus.

Basically I was a chump and wrote her a letter about 'how I felt' (shhhhh) a long time ago, but I we both got over that and became friends.

Since: I've gone to University, she's gone to college. I haven't tried to contact her or anything.

Today she wrote on my facebook wall:

"hey, how are you? hope your well.. hoow is life treating you? been a long time, sorry i have not been in contact. anyway, take care love *** x"

I was thinking reply with a "Hi i'm good thanks. I'm coming back to **** on the 14th, we should meet up!"

Keeping it simple. By the way I was already going home on the 14th...:nono: I was just wondering about my reply, whether I should add / remove anything. Thanks guys

 

[The Master Disaster]

If you want to be friends, then that's a fine response.

If you want to be more than friends, say something more vague, and don't say "we should meet up." Say something more like, "We will have to catch up one night." it's a subtle difference, but don't give her the power to reject you.

 

[Juanito]

If you want to be friends, then that's a fine response.

If you want to be more than friends, say something more vague, and don't say "we should meet up." Say something more like, "We will have to catch up one night." it's a subtle difference, but don't give her the power to reject you.

well said

 

[chinwaggler]

OK thanks that's exactly what I was looking for. Should I try get her number (I lost it when I got my new phone)? Or arrange a meeting in the next message? Or...?