"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well the other day at work i was talking to this girl, i saw her like once before when i first got the job. I wanted to get her # before she left, but she like ninjad out of there. Just recently i found her on myspace off of one of my friends page. i know shes has alot of intrest in me, i catch her looking at me and rapidly turning away when i look at her, she watches me when im talking on my phone, etc. I dont wanna ask for her number through myspace,but i dont think i have a choice, id rather do it in person, but i dont think ill see her anytime soon. any advice? Shes like a 9 btw. Oh yeah someone like translate these abreviations for me like afc, hb9 etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No one replied to you because your afc hb9 questions tells them that you didn't read the DJ bible.

I don't recommend you do it through MySpace but if no other alternative after two weeks then contact her through myspace.
 

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i have read the bible parts of the bible where i feel i need improvement. Which is the majority of it lol. I assumed that i wasnt going to get any advice here, so ended up just going for it. Thanks though, but a little too late.
 

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AFC: Average frustrated chump
HB9: Hot Babe 9 (on a scale of 1 to 10). Commonly men here don't give out 10s to women because it puts them on a pedistal, so a HB9 is about as hot as a woman can get.

As for your problem, don't think so much. Just add her to your friends list, send her a message with some fluff (hi, how are you, blah blah...) and asking for her phone number, and follow regular procedure.
 
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