Advice on what to do

[Magnatolia]

Hi Guys,

I know that an attractive girl who works in a different seciton to me is going to be working near me as of next week.

All I've ever said to her was hello once or twice. So give me some ideas on how you would handle this. Put yourselves in this situation and give me some sample convo's, make a FR on what you would do.

I'm thinking say hello have a couple of lines of convo, invite her to lunch with me. Then maybe try some kino - i don't know, I'm thinking hold her hands - tell her she has nice skin, etc - that way I can sense if she's interested whether she pulls away or not.

Thanks for any advice you can offer
J

 

[Docs]

I'm thinking say hello have a couple of lines of convo, invite her to lunch with me. Then maybe try some kino - i don't know, I'm thinking hold her hands - tell her she has nice skin, etc - that way I can sense if she's interested whether she pulls away or not.

Am I that blind, or am I seeing that you already answered your question.
TRY IT, and let us know what happened.

 

[Magnatolia]

Thanks Docs, I'll try it.

I'm just nervous because I've never really kinoed in my life or escalated. I have a problem where I get an impression that a persons not interested in me either as a friend or more without even giving them a chance. Not sure why or how to explain it.

To be honest, the closest I've come is saying hi to attractive woman on the odd occasion that I pass in the street (odd occasion meaning maybe 1 in 5).

Plus I've been reading some of the material out there and I seem to forget everything I read - I read some great article and I get an image in my head of success but 5-10mins later the article is gone I did notice however during a lot of these images I get stuck in the conversation part - actually knowing what to say. That's why I can't get past hi in the street. I say hi then don't say anything else because I don't know what to say.

 

[koolbreeze]

just stay relaxed dont be tense, girls can sense that.
just know that you are the prize man. you are the sh*t...K?:rockon: