"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Advice on this situation!

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Currently there is a girl in which i'm highly attracted to and I was able to charm her. At times when i deprive her of kino she goes ahead and becomes the aggressive one.

Anyways to get to the point, I've asked her to dinner and after that invited her to a Cultural Lunar Festival however, her parents apparently are very strict and according to her she has to "ask" her parents before she goes out. Also I would say I have a decent relationship with her mom and her dad and usually had good conversations with them mostly all of this outside of their household. So anyways she has to "ask" her parents before she can go what should I do because currently i need tips in order to avoid this deadlock.

Problem: Gives her a reason to flake? or she may be leading me on I have no clue
Tips, tips tips!

P.S. Asian Households are very stern when it comes to female dating and she's 17.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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@ur ps... Dont I know it...

Dude, I dont really get your problem, you want to avoid meeting her parents or do you just want to avoid going to begin with?
 

ascalon

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Get on well with her parents.The tip that I will give you is hard to schieve,but if you succeed you will be the best.

It is not easy , but try to spend some time with her parents,so they will know more things about you.Aquire their trust,make them feel that your are handsome and responsible young man and they can trust you.If you gain their respect,they will let their girl go out with you late at night.

At least this is my opinion
 
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