"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Advice on this site really works.

J.R.G.G

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Ive been reading this site for quite a while now and almost since the beggining i found out that it helps to be reading all kinds of situations and ways to handle sh!t that happens in life. I guess most of all of us have done AFC things in the past, things that now we wouldnt do.

I dont know about you all but i think the most important thing we should get from a woman is respect. The key is ZERO TOLERARION to b1tchy/hor attitudes. One should be desisive and with that Tony Soprano (i dont give a fuk) attitude.

Personaly ive had to learn some things the hard way, the way i handled past relationships in the past were not exactly the best way, I did many mistakes and took alot of disrespect. I tried changing by myself, kept that (i dont give a fuk anymore) attitude before even reading this site, but it was only at random times then i would go back and made some other mistakes, so after finding this site it really helped to reafirm that DJ attitude, to be more constant. And to learn from several good posts. How to handle Jealousy, staying cool, desision taking, among others were some things i learned here and continue to learn other bunch of stuff day by day.


And finally several days after trying to improve some DJ skills its been paying off, some girls notice it and tell me ''i notice something different in you, but i dont know what it is'' and they really act as if they like it. And more importantly, i notice a change too, makes one be more happy with onself and confident with a positive attitude towards life.


I really encourage everyone to read stuff in the DJ bible, on which iam still reading, as well as opinions on different situations and senarios that are posted in the forum. As for me i know theres still alot of things to realize and learn but with time improvement will pay off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just make sure you praktich all this stuff in the real world, reading the bible is all good but unless you practise it you will learn nothing! i recommend that alot of new people do a boot camp aswell
 

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i agree duttylove, thats the whole point of it, reading, learning and the most important it to apply knkowledge on the real world.
 

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yup you got it. at first things seem complex and difficult but as soon as you start to apply it it becoms easy and fun
 
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