"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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so ive been trying to broaden my social horizons lately it im actually feeling better than i usually am. But just one problem n i kno this is kinda noobish but, how do u go exactly into going to a party or watever. thanks ya'll
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are you trying to ask? How to find a party or how to enter a party?
 
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Er,,, you get invited to a party or you throw one up yourself? If that's what your asking.

otherwise, if you mean how to stand out in a party... just go with the flow... and then get out of the flow and do some standout yet cool things. Do not try too hard, just be natural.
 
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Ok i recently accomplished this, and let me say its NOT easy.

First off don't throw a party, THINGS WILL GET STOLEN.

Ok now we need some more information, do you have friends, if so how many, how popular, etc... etc...

For me I had several friends in several different groups and some i didn't care for the group, so i started to move away along with another one of my friends. he then became friends with a pretty popular group. THey wanted to hang out with me, but it was hard to get in contact with them. I eventually had to start being around them and they eventually asked me to hang out. and now i'm doing stuff with them pretty regularly and let me say its awesome doing stuff.

Uhhh if you clarify your situation we may be able to help more
 
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Actually it's not that hard. If you know where the party is, arrange with a friend or two to meet up there. Once you're in, you can meet more people, get connections with more parties etc. etc.

If you think the party is big enough, you can even just show up uninvited. Genrally its frowned upon but it happens all the time. If you spot friends or someone you want make friends with, go talk to them and you're in. If you don't see anyone or if the parties dead, turn right back around and leave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Actually it's not that hard. If you know where the party is, arrange with a friend or two to meet up there. Once you're in, you can meet more people, get connections with more parties etc. etc.

If you think the party is big enough, you can even just show up uninvited. Genrally its frowned upon but it happens all the time. If you spot friends or someone you want make friends with, go talk to them and you're in. If you don't see anyone or if the party's dead, turn right back around and leave.
 
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