advice on the steps to the alpha male

[mtllcanpssy]

so ive been trying to broaden my social horizons lately it im actually feeling better than i usually am. But just one problem n i kno this is kinda noobish but, how do u go exactly into going to a party or watever. thanks ya'll

 

[Porky]

What are you trying to ask? How to find a party or how to enter a party?

 

[Blowfish]

Er,,, you get invited to a party or you throw one up yourself? If that's what your asking.

otherwise, if you mean how to stand out in a party... just go with the flow... and then get out of the flow and do some standout yet cool things. Do not try too hard, just be natural.

 

[Vincent]

Ok i recently accomplished this, and let me say its NOT easy.

First off don't throw a party, THINGS WILL GET STOLEN.

Ok now we need some more information, do you have friends, if so how many, how popular, etc... etc...

For me I had several friends in several different groups and some i didn't care for the group, so i started to move away along with another one of my friends. he then became friends with a pretty popular group. THey wanted to hang out with me, but it was hard to get in contact with them. I eventually had to start being around them and they eventually asked me to hang out. and now i'm doing stuff with them pretty regularly and let me say its awesome doing stuff.

Uhhh if you clarify your situation we may be able to help more

 

[SnatchJP]

Actually it's not that hard. If you know where the party is, arrange with a friend or two to meet up there. Once you're in, you can meet more people, get connections with more parties etc. etc.

If you think the party is big enough, you can even just show up uninvited. Genrally its frowned upon but it happens all the time. If you spot friends or someone you want make friends with, go talk to them and you're in. If you don't see anyone or if the parties dead, turn right back around and leave.

 

[SnatchJP]

Actually it's not that hard. If you know where the party is, arrange with a friend or two to meet up there. Once you're in, you can meet more people, get connections with more parties etc. etc.

If you think the party is big enough, you can even just show up uninvited. Genrally its frowned upon but it happens all the time. If you spot friends or someone you want make friends with, go talk to them and you're in. If you don't see anyone or if the party's dead, turn right back around and leave.