"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Advice on text game?

Deadly_Ripped

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Hey DJ's. Could anyone help point me in the direction of some really solid text advice? I am not used to dating with active texters, and I'd like to avoid learning the easy lessons the hard way.

Any help would be appreciated!

Thanks,
Deadly_Ripped
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bingo-Player

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You need to keep texts short and sweet , paragraphs in my experience are a big no-no and will lay the foundations to a needy relationship that wont work

Mirror her response time , if shes responding instantly then respond instantly

If shes taking 10 mins then you take 10 mins

If she takes a week then you take 2 weeks and so on so forth

Try not to end the conversation with you sending the last text

Avoid texts wishing her good morning/ good night

Try to avoid day time texting – you have work to do

NEVER DOUBLE TEXT

If the conversation is going stale then make your excuses and end it
 

Rainman4707

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I don't like texting. I text very little & it has done me no harm.
I like to impress in person not via text.
 
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