"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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advice on showing identity over the internet

rocco

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how do you guys feel about being anonymous on public forums? there are few other forums that i'm a part of, where i've bumped into people who i know in real life. its kind of weird.

although perhaps it shouldnt be, as lots of people post up their pics. anyway, whats your guy's view on it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hck332

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I think privacy in general should be banned so we can be what we really are.

If you aren't doing anything wrong, why would you hide?
 

rocco

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thanks you are right, i just needed the reassurance.

more input welcomed on this thread. gogogogogo :)
 
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