"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice on seducing strangers

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Don Juan
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Hi all,

Can someone please provide a step-by-step on how to seduce a woman.

I'd like people to post step-by-steps on what they normally do to try and get a girls attention.

I'm not after field reports, more what you do. Like when do you kino, that sort of thing.

I was reading a suggestion on doing kino on the arm and leaning in and whispering something in their ear. What sort of thing would you whisper? Would 'This is getting steamy', then blow on their ear?

Is that good, or just dumb?

A few of these would really help me because I could then take bits and pieces. Some ideas will work better than others in different situations.

Thanks
J
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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