well at this bar i frequent, theres this little hottie barmaid.... she probly gets hit on 1000 times a night so i was taking it slow and waiting to get a little bit of rapport before i started macking....
IF YOU DONT WANA READ THE WHOLE THING SKIP TO CLIFF NOTES AND MY QUESTION AT THE BOTTOM
anyway the past 3 visits there (from oldest to most recent, each was about 2 weeks from the other, i dont like being there every weekend then its just to predictable) (note: before these visits it had always just been casual small talk same as with any other waitress)....
1) -she got switched from a waitress that walks around to serving only beers from a big ice bucket.... as soon as i walk over her eyes light up and she asks me "hey!! hows your night going!!"... i then proceed to congratulate her on the promotion, to which she says its not a promotion, so i start busting on her about getting demoted and tell her she better watch out or she might get fired, then buy a drink.. rest of the night is just smiles and stuff... dont wana suffocate her, shes working
2) -dont talk to her all night, just go about my business macking other girls... must made her a bit jealous cuz a little before last call she changes into regular clothes and joins the bar scene... she walks by and my afc buddy thinking he was helping me out grabs her and introduces himself and tells her my name.. to which she replies "i know ***.. hes here all the time and he loves vodka redbull"... my buddy excuses himself and i ask her what her background is (i already know shes serbian from myspace but she doesnt know that)... then i tell her i'm croatian and i guess that means we can't be friends... im joking around and she picks up on it and asks if i'm really croatian to which i tell her no i'm actually 100% japanese... i'm obviously not japanese but go with it for a little bit telling her just because i dont look japanese doesnt mean i'm not and she shouldnt be so close minded... anyway the convo goes on a bit and eventually i tell her im irish.... another waitress comes out and she tells me she has to go cuz thats her ride
3) this was last night and by far the best so far.... as soon as i get to the bar she sees me (shes back on waitress duty) and comes up and gives me a hug... i say something about her being switched back to waitress and she tells me in 2 weeks shes gonna be bartending like mixing real drinks and stuff... a little later in the night theres a breakdance circle and she walks by so i ask her why she isnt breakdancing.. she tells me to lead the way, but i tell her no no ladies first..... anyway this one is the killer... maybe a half hour before last call she comes up to me and says...
"i'm so tired.. i just want to go to bed"...
i look at her witha a shocked look on my face and say "what?"
"i want to go to bed"
again, acting all shocked "but i'm catholic.... a its good friday!!!"
she tells me something about being orthodox something or another, and i tell her i'm not that easy blah blah blah
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cliff notes:
-anyway this girl is into me... in those past 3 visit i have only bought 1 drink off her (in the oldest of the 3 visit) so shes not just flirting with me for tips
-i my most recent visit (last night) she hugged me as soon as she saw me, then later on in the night i accuse her of trying to get me into bed
so... .the question now.... i dont have this girls number and i dont wana just pull the "i wana get to know you, whats your number line"......
i was thinking bout the next time i go there on a friday, to tell her to sleep in 2morow morning cuz on saturday night i'll pick her up from work and we'll go for some late night food.......... goood idea on not????
if i do go the get her number and call her up for a date i'd probly just ask her about cheezy pick up lines early in the night then later on tell her i lost my number can i have hers.. jokingly of course...
anyway thoughts and input please??? i'd rather do the i'll pick u up from work 2morow thing than having to get her number and call her up for a date
IF YOU DONT WANA READ THE WHOLE THING SKIP TO CLIFF NOTES AND MY QUESTION AT THE BOTTOM
anyway the past 3 visits there (from oldest to most recent, each was about 2 weeks from the other, i dont like being there every weekend then its just to predictable) (note: before these visits it had always just been casual small talk same as with any other waitress)....
1) -she got switched from a waitress that walks around to serving only beers from a big ice bucket.... as soon as i walk over her eyes light up and she asks me "hey!! hows your night going!!"... i then proceed to congratulate her on the promotion, to which she says its not a promotion, so i start busting on her about getting demoted and tell her she better watch out or she might get fired, then buy a drink.. rest of the night is just smiles and stuff... dont wana suffocate her, shes working
2) -dont talk to her all night, just go about my business macking other girls... must made her a bit jealous cuz a little before last call she changes into regular clothes and joins the bar scene... she walks by and my afc buddy thinking he was helping me out grabs her and introduces himself and tells her my name.. to which she replies "i know ***.. hes here all the time and he loves vodka redbull"... my buddy excuses himself and i ask her what her background is (i already know shes serbian from myspace but she doesnt know that)... then i tell her i'm croatian and i guess that means we can't be friends... im joking around and she picks up on it and asks if i'm really croatian to which i tell her no i'm actually 100% japanese... i'm obviously not japanese but go with it for a little bit telling her just because i dont look japanese doesnt mean i'm not and she shouldnt be so close minded... anyway the convo goes on a bit and eventually i tell her im irish.... another waitress comes out and she tells me she has to go cuz thats her ride
3) this was last night and by far the best so far.... as soon as i get to the bar she sees me (shes back on waitress duty) and comes up and gives me a hug... i say something about her being switched back to waitress and she tells me in 2 weeks shes gonna be bartending like mixing real drinks and stuff... a little later in the night theres a breakdance circle and she walks by so i ask her why she isnt breakdancing.. she tells me to lead the way, but i tell her no no ladies first..... anyway this one is the killer... maybe a half hour before last call she comes up to me and says...
"i'm so tired.. i just want to go to bed"...
i look at her witha a shocked look on my face and say "what?"
"i want to go to bed"
again, acting all shocked "but i'm catholic.... a its good friday!!!"
she tells me something about being orthodox something or another, and i tell her i'm not that easy blah blah blah
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cliff notes:
-anyway this girl is into me... in those past 3 visit i have only bought 1 drink off her (in the oldest of the 3 visit) so shes not just flirting with me for tips
-i my most recent visit (last night) she hugged me as soon as she saw me, then later on in the night i accuse her of trying to get me into bed
so... .the question now.... i dont have this girls number and i dont wana just pull the "i wana get to know you, whats your number line"......
i was thinking bout the next time i go there on a friday, to tell her to sleep in 2morow morning cuz on saturday night i'll pick her up from work and we'll go for some late night food.......... goood idea on not????
if i do go the get her number and call her up for a date i'd probly just ask her about cheezy pick up lines early in the night then later on tell her i lost my number can i have hers.. jokingly of course...
anyway thoughts and input please??? i'd rather do the i'll pick u up from work 2morow thing than having to get her number and call her up for a date
