"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Advice on picking up girls while at work (club)

Anfz

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Ok guys just got a new job working as bussie/glassie in a popular nightclub,if know one knows what that is ,its basically collecting glasses,ashtrays,stock etc a bit less glamorous than a bar man but hey it pays,anyway could i use such a job to my advantage even though your officially working ? if so any particular openers or any advice would be great,I know with neg hits and all that is risky especially me working there and complaints and all,whats the best way to go about this type of job? thanks guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dress up, wear perfumes (high quality),always try to make eye contact, smile, do not melt in front of the girls be a mystery...let them try to talk with you..
 

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anyone else was kinda hoping for something a bit more specific to the situation? thanks again
 
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