"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Advice on picking up girls while at work (club)

Anfz

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Ok guys just got a new job working as bussie/glassie in a popular nightclub,if know one knows what that is ,its basically collecting glasses,ashtrays,stock etc a bit less glamorous than a bar man but hey it pays,anyway could i use such a job to my advantage even though your officially working ? if so any particular openers or any advice would be great,I know with neg hits and all that is risky especially me working there and complaints and all,whats the best way to go about this type of job? thanks guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Trapper

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dress up, wear perfumes (high quality),always try to make eye contact, smile, do not melt in front of the girls be a mystery...let them try to talk with you..
 

Anfz

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anyone else was kinda hoping for something a bit more specific to the situation? thanks again
 
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