"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i am not a troll frist off but this made sound very trollish..

i am a sophmore and right now i am pretty much the best i have ever been standing with girls...in my school i have a terrible rep for my stonerness, which is without a doubt the reason why im "charming" so many girls atm..as in i look tons better and got my personalty back its realy an incredible story not to brag just saying (all the nonsense in this post is to say realy how bad drugs will **** you up)...but the thing is i dont know where to go from here..i mean its great and all whats happening to me right now but the thing is i want to focus on 1 girl and etc but i have this bad habbit of ignoring people because i dont want to seem bothersome (unless its like a brother ot sister like friend), but i have a wonderfull personalty and alot of poeple have fallen in love with it :DD...the things are my ignoreing habbit and even worse is some of my friends are embaressing and are getting in my way and making me seem bad..like they make me seem liek a ***** and call me tings like that (its realy just two peopel in particluer..but they helped me reach my status atm at the same time)


the ignoring habbit i dont expct anyone to be able to help me because its more of a personal issue then anything else i think... with but the real problem here is some of my friends who embaress me and i dont know what to do about it..i dont wanna just tell some of these peopel to leave me the **** alone cause thats mean..how can i stop this without being mean..do i relay have to deck them inteh face tahts whats some of the girls are telling me to do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any counsel I give you would be deemed inappropriate considering that you are under 18!
 
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