"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Advice on ignoring a chick...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, I was pursuing a chick in one of my classes because I thought she was sending me signals, by smiling when walking by. I made small talk once, approached her another day, more small talk & introduced myself.

However, recently when i was trying to talk to her its like a pain. I saw her waiting outside on a balcony right outside one of my classes, i get out and say "hey blah blah" she says hey and gives EC, but starts to walk away, like as im trying to talk to her. She actually started pacing in different directions like she was waiting for someone. Eventually some dude i only got a glimpse of come up form behind her and hugged her. (bf i guess?)

I was then convinced wtf, this girl has no interest. So i decided to ignore her, even EC.Then I was talking to a buddy of mine in class and she's giving me direct EC, and after class smiled back at me. Whats the Deal? (she is russian or something) and doesnt speak perfect english, maybe i should've just been more direct/forward?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by Tomb
Forget her and focus on other targets.
The best way to ignore a girl is to make another girl laugh in her presence.

Trust me.
 

DonJuanMonk

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You ask on "how to ignore" a girl. Seems kinda logical, don't ya think to just simply ignore and move on?
 
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