"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Advice on ignoring a chick...

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, I was pursuing a chick in one of my classes because I thought she was sending me signals, by smiling when walking by. I made small talk once, approached her another day, more small talk & introduced myself.

However, recently when i was trying to talk to her its like a pain. I saw her waiting outside on a balcony right outside one of my classes, i get out and say "hey blah blah" she says hey and gives EC, but starts to walk away, like as im trying to talk to her. She actually started pacing in different directions like she was waiting for someone. Eventually some dude i only got a glimpse of come up form behind her and hugged her. (bf i guess?)

I was then convinced wtf, this girl has no interest. So i decided to ignore her, even EC.Then I was talking to a buddy of mine in class and she's giving me direct EC, and after class smiled back at me. Whats the Deal? (she is russian or something) and doesnt speak perfect english, maybe i should've just been more direct/forward?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alphathree

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Originally posted by Tomb
Forget her and focus on other targets.
The best way to ignore a girl is to make another girl laugh in her presence.

Trust me.
 

DonJuanMonk

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You ask on "how to ignore" a girl. Seems kinda logical, don't ya think to just simply ignore and move on?
 
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