I F'd up and know better as I usually don't have this problem but this girl was a unique challenge. I met her at bar (she bartended) there, she saw me 4-5 times in 2 weeks, then got flaky with communication. She has got a serious edge which turned me on and yet was definitely the type not out to F around, even mentioned how she thought about some dating service, she did drop a few digs on me about being the "typical" guy.
Anyways she ended up coming over my place at 2:30AM after she got out of work a couple weeks ago, watched a movie then gave me on of the best bjs i ever had, she stayed till 10am the next morn doing the completely afffectionate thing. Sent me a text the next day about how good of a night she had. So everything is good, so i ask her when I can see her and she says that she may not be working Sunday, cool i ask to her to let me know. The weekend rolls around nothing, see her at work, nothing, sunday i send her a txt asking her about that night, nothing.
My big mistake was getting frustrated, and sending a needy sounding text which she responded with "I think its just our schedules are different" then she sent another right after "Its only been a week", i responded the next day but never got any response at all from her. I see her at work as she works our favorite hang out, and she does not like me lol, i went from that night at my place to a leper in one week without even seeing her again. Trying to come up with the best angle to getting her back in the loop, any suggestions? Was going to send a txt just asking if she wanted to get coffee or lunch..
Anyways she ended up coming over my place at 2:30AM after she got out of work a couple weeks ago, watched a movie then gave me on of the best bjs i ever had, she stayed till 10am the next morn doing the completely afffectionate thing. Sent me a text the next day about how good of a night she had. So everything is good, so i ask her when I can see her and she says that she may not be working Sunday, cool i ask to her to let me know. The weekend rolls around nothing, see her at work, nothing, sunday i send her a txt asking her about that night, nothing.
My big mistake was getting frustrated, and sending a needy sounding text which she responded with "I think its just our schedules are different" then she sent another right after "Its only been a week", i responded the next day but never got any response at all from her. I see her at work as she works our favorite hang out, and she does not like me lol, i went from that night at my place to a leper in one week without even seeing her again. Trying to come up with the best angle to getting her back in the loop, any suggestions? Was going to send a txt just asking if she wanted to get coffee or lunch..
Honestly I think guilt has something to do with and i dont think she had the best impression of me, she came acorss as jaded and distrustful right off the bat,