Advice on how to bed a friend

[buffdom]

Right, so I am meeting this girl I have always been into and, for the first time in about 10 years, she isn't in a relationship.

I was a real wuss with her in the past. I hadn't discovered this site yet, so I did all the wrong things and, basically, got treated like one of her girlfriends while she went for other guys.

Now, since discovering this place, my luck with the ladies has dramatically increased and I want to bang this broad badly so that I can finally say I have turned the corner.

But I know that from what I've read on here, changing a girl's mindset from friend to sexual partner is tough, especially when I've been a drip in the past.

But one of you guys must have managed it, right?

Do I do the same things I've been doing since discovering this site? I want to have it done after one meeting with her.

Any advice?

 

[sexysuave]

I've done this a few times before. NOT an easy thing to do and probably would't even recommend it lol. But one feeling that you do get is "awww, you wouldn't give me the time of day rommantically but now I finallky f***ed the s**t outta you".

Yes, it can be done. NO, it is not easy. And overall, I probably woudn't even recommend it. If you wanna talk more, drop me a PM with your number and we can chat on the phone and I'll tell you a few stories and strategies. Good luck.

 

[mahoney]

done this a number of times but - not really intentionally as such, and definitely not after one meeting in the way you are saying

it was kind of organic and just sort of happened - think if i'd planned it i would have acted differently and it wouldn't have happened tbh

 

[Quiksilver]

Go direct to kino, playful touching, sexual innuendo.

Just skip the b.s. and if she backs off then you back off as well. There should be some established trust and friendship there so she won't run for the hills if you come on a little too strong.

She'll feel some level of guilt for getting nailed by a friend, so be prepared to deal with some LMR.

Have done this many times, scary actually.

 

[Biggie]

I've done this before as well. And like Mahoney, it wasn't intentional. Basically I had accepted the fact that we were just friends, so every time we hung out i didn't really give her attention, and if she asked me to do stuff I didn't wanna do, I wouldn't do it. I'd pay more attention to my guy friends, and any other girls that were around. We got really drunk one night and I was taking care of another friend who is a girl and who was wasted, and the first girl kept saying to my guy friend, "Where's Biggie?? I wanna make out with him!" Then we went in my spa, started making out, and it got hot and heavy and did the deed.

It was awesome cuz this girl was someone who I had wanted to do for years; seriously she's one of the sexiest girls I've ever met. But, like they say, once i actually stopped trying to please her and be nice to her, that's when i got her. (At this time I even had HER buying ME drinks every time we went out.)