"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Daniel1099

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The best thing to do in highschool is to build a social circle. obviously.

The only way you are going to be able to come off as boyfriend material is if people are talking about you, when your not their.

The way you get to become a desirable guy is to build a circle of girls that you always flirt with, and have fun conversations with, and are friendly...but your not friends with them....

If your constantly crackin jokes with girls, and being fun. its a lot easier to take them out ...

It wont hurt to have a wingwomen that IS truly a friend, that can put in a good word for you if you interested in someone

Example:

Me: HAHA. WOW. You did not just say that...
Her: HAHAHA Shut Up!!! you are sooo mean!"
Me: Ha, you know im plaaayin... man i cant wait till friday, im so done with this week
Her: Yeahh mee to...its been so long and annoying...
Me: Yeah i know...what are you doin sat night?
Her: Um...probably nothing...i got nothing planned
Me: Oh ok, well im probably gonna go to the movies, and then my bros party, you should come.
Her: Thats sounds hekka fun! text me details laterz k??
Me: Alright sounds good, later cutie


This girl could just be a "friend" and you should have like 10 of these in highschool.

You want to be considered a big flirt pretty much, flirt with EVERYBODY.
mess around with the teachers. just be fun.


If your just starting out, this may be a lot harder because you havent really developed a confident attitude to be able to pull that off...

But, it can still happen.


Just take it one step at a time by being a "louder" kid in class, speak out when the teachers asks you questions, talk loud and confidently. be funny.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's-Me

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Daniel1099 said:
Me: HAHA. WOW. You did not just say that...
Her: HAHAHA Shut Up!!! you are sooo mean!"
Me: Ha, you know im plaaayin... man i cant wait till friday, im so done with this week
That's not too smooth honestly. "You did not just say that" is a line a girl would usually say and you'd have to bust back at her because she's testing you.

Also, she knew you were joking, but by telling her you were, you just gave your value away.

It sounds like your more in the friend zone.
 

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lmfao

the fuk?

how did u get friend zone from THAT.

i said "wow u did not just say that" because i couldnt think of a convo at the time...

and saying just playing doesnt have to do anything with friends lmao wtf
 

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great tip at the end, being louder in class, having fun with the teacher in front of the class, cracking jokes. it will definitely aid approaches because the girl will already see you as funny and social in that class. im gonna start doing that a lil bit more
 

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I make every class a gong show, I don't think it helps really.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stblack

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It's-Me said:
That's not too smooth honestly. "You did not just say that" is a line a girl would usually say and you'd have to bust back at her because she's testing you.

Also, she knew you were joking, but by telling her you were, you just gave your value away.

It sounds like your more in the friend zone.

Another tip, stop ANALYZING so damn much.
 

I'm in the Mood

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Daniel1099 said:
The best thing to do in highschool is to build a social circle. obviously.

The only way you are going to be able to come off as boyfriend material is if people are talking about you, when your not their.

The way you get to become a desirable guy is to build a circle of girls that you always flirt with, and have fun conversations with, and are friendly...but your not friends with them....

If your constantly crackin jokes with girls, and being fun. its a lot easier to take them out ...

It wont hurt to have a wingwomen that IS truly a friend, that can put in a good word for you if you interested in someone

Example:

Me: HAHA. WOW. You did not just say that...
Her: HAHAHA Shut Up!!! you are sooo mean!"
Me: Ha, you know im plaaayin... man i cant wait till friday, im so done with this week
Her: Yeahh mee to...its been so long and annoying...
Me: Yeah i know...what are you doin sat night?
Her: Um...probably nothing...i got nothing planned
Me: Oh ok, well im probably gonna go to the movies, and then my bros party, you should come.
Her: Thats sounds hekka fun! text me details laterz k??
Me: Alright sounds good, later cutie


This girl could just be a "friend" and you should have like 10 of these in highschool.

You want to be considered a big flirt pretty much, flirt with EVERYBODY.
mess around with the teachers. just be fun.


If your just starting out, this may be a lot harder because you havent really developed a confident attitude to be able to pull that off...

But, it can still happen.


Just take it one step at a time by being a "louder" kid in class, speak out when the teachers asks you questions, talk loud and confidently. be funny.
What?

I got lost after the 1st sentence...until the last sentence.
 

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A lot of this post was good, but I think you left out the most important part. I was kind of like this before (loud in class, somewhate funny), but this can't work without a really close guy friend to HAVE the party at. Still a really good post.
 

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Dimehair said:
A lot of this post was good, but I think you left out the most important part. I was kind of like this before (loud in class, somewhate funny), but this can't work without a really close guy friend to HAVE the party at. Still a really good post.
Yeah, you have to have someone close in your class beside you, or it just doesnt work.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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