Advice on giving head?

[PalmerTheCharmer]

Naturally a vital part of any Don's arsenal is not just being able to talk the talk, but to walk the walk. What I mean by this is its all very well being able to be C&F and confident etc, but when you finally get that girl back to the bedroom you gotta be able to back up your confidence with technique and ability

Me myself I would say I have moderate sexual experience, but when it comes to 'going south' I am something of a rookie. What are the best techniques you guys use?

For instance when it comes to fingering (or whatever you guys in the US call it), one of the best techniques I know is to use two fingers, insert and stroke the inside top part of the vaginal wall in a motion as if you were beckoning someone to come over (this is after getting her wet of course). Generally this works a treat.

However with cunnilingus I am not so clued up. I've heard the old 'circular motion!' and 'tease her, be unpredictable!' lines etc before.. but these are a bit sketchy to say the least.

So what are the best techniques to leave your girl begging for more? And how the f*** do you get 'tongue stamina'? Do you have to sit around for weeks prior practising flicking your tongue out rapidly? Is there a less ridiculous way? Please let me know whats up. Thanks

 

[octane_orphan]

Load of advice here - http://experts.about.com/q/2391/

 

[PalmerTheCharmer]

Pretty useful thanks man. Still looking for the method to get that 'tongue like a power drill' tho..

 

[octane_orphan]

Switch on the telly right now! ITV ... This Morning show ... woman talking about female orgasms and Philip Scofield looking very very uncomfortable

http://www.itv.com/page.asp?partid=846

 

[PalmerTheCharmer]

LOL I wish I could man.. I'm at work right now. Damn I bet that was funny tho - the look on Schofield's face must have been priceless...

 

[Andromax]

OOoo

My favorite thing to do...

Palmer, it aint about have a tongue like a power drill.

Warning EXPLICIT content Well I will keep it R rated...
I dont know if I am allowed to post this kind of content, so I will keep it tasteful.

I am pretty confident in my orals skills, and let me tell you that first and foremost its not something that you just straight to the honey pot on.

When I go down on a chick, I usually spend like 10 minutes kissing her entire body, getting her nice and warmed up. I wont even touch her vafina atfirst. After a while you could touch her vagina, but its important to not touch her cl!t yet.

When she is properly turned on, make yourself comfortable between her legs with her layin on her back. Kiss her thighs, drags your tongue on her thighs without getting her all slobery.

slowly work your way inward, and kiss around the lips. Tease it, go back to kissing her legs. Gently give it nice licks and kisses, almost like you were kissing her face.

Dont touch her cl!t yet.

This will feel really nice for her, not orgasmic, but we will build up to that.

its important to start slow.

So keep going on this, she will let you know with bodylanguage if she likes it or not. She will squirm, run her hands through her hair, (i love it when they talk to me when I am giving them head) whatever she does, all girls are different.

Now she might start guiding your head and mouth towards her cl!t but dont touch it yet. You are gonna make her go wild!

Continue just kissing her lips and gently licking, nice long slow passionate licks and kisses, its okay to get slobery at this point, too

When she can bear it no longer, gently lick her cl!t, start slow, and dont stay on it just yet, go back to what you were doin before.

Go back and forth a couple times.

You can work up your speed and pressure gradually, but you should never use too much pressure or go to fast, it just isnt necessary, and the girl wont like it as much.

Then when she seems like she is on the verge of orgasm, you just stop completely, kiss her thigh next to her vagina, then start up again. This will make her insane, she will be clawing at your head, and she might even get a little mad, but she wont want you to stop!

Women have told me they come harder after I do that to them, but the idea is that you suprise them with it. So dont do it every time.

Anyways, thats just a generally easy way to go down on a chick, you will learn many more positions and techniques just by experience!

Hope you have fun

Oh yeah, I prefer a woman is clean shaven, if you convince her to do that, it makes life easier and more enjoyable down below! Same goes for your own hairdo!


Andromax

 

[PalmerTheCharmer]

Wow thanx man some great info there. So from what I gather it seems to be all about the teasing and build-up parts rather than just power licking her like there's no tomorrow.

And I like the 'stopping and starting again' bit, when they are close to orgasm. I will certainly incorporate that into my routine, especially if it does drive them insane like you say.

Great stuff. Now all I need is a hot chick to go practice on!

 

[Desdinova]

Props to Andromax!

Just a couple things I want to add. Try not to always use the same technique on your woman. Sometimes I'll warm her up with my fingers first, and then I'll stick my face right in there. Also, when I'm down there using my tongue, I'll begin to introduce a finger as well. This will drive her incredibly fvcking crazy. Make spreading motions between your tongue and your finger (like you're opening up curtains). Also, while your tongue is busy, use your finger to explore the hole. Start moving your finger back and forth as if you were fvcking her as you increase the speed your tongue is moving.

 

[PalmerTheCharmer]

Yeah I think I heard that somewhere before (the old 'tongue & finger' trick). Works a treat, apparently.

Well thanks a lot guys, I will take all of that on board (and probably print it out this page too). Then hopefully soon I will be able to try these techniques out on my next victim. Sorry, I mean girlfriend.

 

[Jariel]

Andromax is correct.

In very simple terms: the best way to get a woman off is to take your time and tease her.

Not so many people realise it, but it is possible to make a woman climax without sex or without even removing any underwear.

Unfortunately, so many guys learn sex from watching porn and think hard and fast is the way to go. This may be the way to get men off, but the direct opposite is true when it comes to women.

 

[GaryNas]

Originally posted by Jariel
Andromax is correct.
Unfortunately, so many guys learn sex from watching porn and think hard and fast is the way to go. This may be the way to get men off, but the direct opposite is true when it comes to women.

I disagree with this to a certain degree. If you watch porn to actually "study" what they're doing, then it can be very useful. There are some pretty good oral techniques they use that I've tried myself with very nice results.

 

[knight56]

Why do some porn stars like licking a man a**ole?

 

[diablo]

Anything Else...

 

[Climax]

Why do most people do things? *G*

Originally posted by knight56
Why do some porn stars like licking a man a**ole?

They do it for the MONEY!


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