"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok looking for some imput on what to do. I have been talking with this girl at my gym that graduated HS a year behind me. In HS she was always one of the cool girls in HS, cheerleader, student council, track star. She graduated college last year and saw me in the gym about 2 weeks ago while riding the recumbent bikes we talked. She commented on how much i changed and how jacked up i look. I was flusteted and laughed when she said it. Everytime she comes through the doors she walks at me with a huge smile on her face and strikes up a convo. My problem is i still see her as that cool girl in HS while back then i was a completly different person. Im looking for imput on how to go about getting to know this girl better and possible date ideas. She is extremly active and so am I.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol yeah that would have been ideal at that moment. When i see her again at the gym i will ask her.
 
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