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nolesfan

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Alright guys

this is a pretty simple question, I just met a girl through facebook and got her number. I asked her out earlier this week (Monday) for next Tuesday - she said yes. I didnt tell her where or what time yet. I havent heard from her since, and I was planning on getting ahold of her prolly Friday or Saturday to solidify a time and place.

1) I just am wondering if thats the right play

2) she is a single mom and owns her own business and she said she is pretty busy so I dont expect her to text me a lot, but if she doesnt get ahold of me by the next time I get ahold of her, do you think that shows low interest level especially since I havent told her where or what time, just the day, or just that she is pretty busy with her own ****

I just am trying to get better at reading this interest level thing and of the plates I got going right now, she is the one i would like to work out, and I just dont want to fvck up something if im clearly missing it

Note: she did seem pretty excited to meet up and said she would "absolutely love to get drinks"

Any thoughts or advice are welcome, thanks bros
 

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nolesfan said:
I asked her out earlier this week (Monday) for next Tuesday - she said yes. I didnt tell her where or what time yet. I havent heard from her since, and I was planning on getting ahold of her prolly Friday or Saturday to solidify a time and place.
This sounds perfect. Your game is solid.

My question though is why are you pursing a single mom who is running a business? That of all your plates this is the one you specifically want to work out?
 
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