"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Advice On Getting Her Back...Or Not?

Dropt03Ranger

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oh im glad i found this all out before we got married...i stopped contact with her so what ever happens happens...i wont know who shes with or when...so if she feels the need to talk shes going to have to call me...whats done is done...time to keep on goin for me...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kidquick

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In five years you're gonna look back on this girl and laugh - trust me.
 

Dropt03Ranger

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i dont even think it will take me 5 years for that...the way she has been acting since the breakup...after the dude takes advantage of her i will laugh then...i dont care anymore...if she moved on so fast it isnt gonna work out anyways...and he is a flamer...so its all good...kinda laughable already if you ask me
 
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