"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So i set up a date with this girl who plays real busy. So we set up our date for something like Oct 7. After a while this bothered me, i texted her and said "Hey we're moving up the date to thurs sep 29th. She responded like "I dont think so". So i shoot back saying "I dont feel like waiting, We're moving it up."

She got a kick out of this saying she liked how i took charge and she'll "Think about it". So heres my chance to make sure she follows through and i stay in command. Any advice on what to do/say when she puts up resistance to this idea would be appreicated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would cancel the date personally. Sounds like low IL and she'll probably cancel your date if something better comes up before then. If you she liked you she'd make time for you.

I'd just continue what you are doing and don't back down. Its BS to have to wait 3 weeks.
 
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it's September 14th, and you're scheduling a date for October 7th? this seems like a big waste of time, or she's not interested, or both:confused:
 
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bwahaha, maybe ill use all this to say to her.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I hear ya, I dated a hot little PR chick. so sexy... anyway, there were times I didnt see her for like a month. Being an AFC at the time ( dont laugh we all were), I chased her around to get a date like bugs bunny.......

F##k her man, you have to get her on your D$$k!

My suggestion: Tell her your going away or some sh$$, make the story good. tell her your going in like 3 weeks. Get her to committ to a date soon, in like a week. A few days before cancel it, rescedual, then cancel again. Then don't call her. You have to give your self a sense of value, worth. If you do get in, F##k her brains out like you paid for it & leave her. If you do it right, and your persistant, it will work. I've done it before, it works. But don't screw it up like I did a few months later. Make sure she's on your D$$k, the most importrant thing is to establish that early.

PS. if you dont do it right, she WILL play you, keep that in mind so you play her 1st

---happy hunting!
 
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