"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Colinski282

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So i set up a date with this girl who plays real busy. So we set up our date for something like Oct 7. After a while this bothered me, i texted her and said "Hey we're moving up the date to thurs sep 29th. She responded like "I dont think so". So i shoot back saying "I dont feel like waiting, We're moving it up."

She got a kick out of this saying she liked how i took charge and she'll "Think about it". So heres my chance to make sure she follows through and i stay in command. Any advice on what to do/say when she puts up resistance to this idea would be appreicated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would cancel the date personally. Sounds like low IL and she'll probably cancel your date if something better comes up before then. If you she liked you she'd make time for you.

I'd just continue what you are doing and don't back down. Its BS to have to wait 3 weeks.
 
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it's September 14th, and you're scheduling a date for October 7th? this seems like a big waste of time, or she's not interested, or both:confused:
 
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bwahaha, maybe ill use all this to say to her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hear ya, I dated a hot little PR chick. so sexy... anyway, there were times I didnt see her for like a month. Being an AFC at the time ( dont laugh we all were), I chased her around to get a date like bugs bunny.......

F##k her man, you have to get her on your D$$k!

My suggestion: Tell her your going away or some sh$$, make the story good. tell her your going in like 3 weeks. Get her to committ to a date soon, in like a week. A few days before cancel it, rescedual, then cancel again. Then don't call her. You have to give your self a sense of value, worth. If you do get in, F##k her brains out like you paid for it & leave her. If you do it right, and your persistant, it will work. I've done it before, it works. But don't screw it up like I did a few months later. Make sure she's on your D$$k, the most importrant thing is to establish that early.

PS. if you dont do it right, she WILL play you, keep that in mind so you play her 1st

---happy hunting!
 
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