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been dating this girl for 2months and I am taking her to dinner and i thought it might be good to send her flowers or bring her some. what do you think and if so, should i get a bunch or a few?
also, i just thought about it but since we are going to dinner kinda of early (8:00pm) should i plan something for after in case she wants to go out? just asking.. just thought of the ideas..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yea..dont send them to her.

or get a few.

if you are just in the linking getting to know her stage..not love.

then get her a pink rose or her favorite carnation if she told wat that is.

dont get her a red rose now.
 

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I love this shyt. Make sure you pay for her dinner, get her flowers, and after you're done why not wash her @ss too?
another fraud.
a 26 yr old man is taking a women out to dinner and wants to know if he should get her a flower?

and you act like your so FYCKING COOL!


you are the problem with this FANTASY land BS some of you guys put out here.



your like the nerds who play halo and tell me they will own and fyck my brains out.

yet in real life they would be pissing themselves in my prescences after that noise.


dont you think its strange you have 81 posts.

atleast half are in threads I post in.

and you have a link about me in ur profile.

thats really sad man.

you need to get some help.

or some self esteem
 

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id take herr to dinner only. flowers is too much
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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first of all, JC i want to call you a moron but i will be more clear. I already have this girl in the palm of my hand. Using don juan skills and showing her that I can put my foot down and dont need her for ****, we are way past the stuff you talk about. This is me showing that I can be a good guy and do something for her. All i hear is how i never take her anywhere or do anything and I just want sex so i am deciding to do something nice for her because I do like her. she is not just my sex toy. So i am advancing the relationship and wanted to see if anyone thought flowers at this point was a good idea. i have yet to buy her flowers or anything (hence the "you never do anything for me" speech). Also, we are past 2 months; not just got to 2 months. i dont keep track so it could be 3 for all i know. What i do know is that I want to open up more and see if we are really going to be compatible. Find out what kind of person she really is. I am not moving up to spending more time with her or to buying her things and becoming an AFC, i just want to know where to go from here and if dinner and flowers was a good idea.
 

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dude....



all women love flowers.

dont listen to this dribble on here.

I have a 5 month ltr now..

ive only gotten her 2 roses so far.

both time I got her a rose she was very very happy with it.



this is rediculous that you have to even ask this....if u cant buy ur women a flower after ur pounding her in bed.

wat is this world coming to
 

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unfortunaley jerkson is right. you cant give her both. and the guy who is in 5 motnh ltr.. you bought just 2 flowers in 5 motnhs, why do you want this guy to buy flowers now..
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Ugh. Do what you want man.

But by taking her out and buying her flowers you are jumping through her hoop. You need to do shyt like this when she doesn't expect it. Even make it a suprise. And one or the other. Either flowers OR dinner.


JC Jerkson
well i just called her up out of the blue and told her i wanted to take her to dinner tonight. Its not like she said i dont do things and then i jumped for it.
Your probably right with the one or the other thing.
hmm.. does give me an idea tho. maybe i can surprise her after dinner with another thing to go do...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your probably right with the one or the other thing.
hmm.. does give me an idea tho. maybe i can surprise her after dinner with another thing to go do...




Are you guys FYCKING kidding me

SOSUAVE is making you so paranoid you cant buy your women 1 freaking flower!

listen to yourselves!

holy shyt! :crackup:


its a flower.

oh my god she will think your a smoothering afc now!

dont do it! :)
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
Your probably right with the one or the other thing.
hmm.. does give me an idea tho. maybe i can surprise her after dinner with another thing to go do...




Are you guys FYCKING kidding me

SOSUAVE is making you so paranoid you cant buy your women 1 freaking flower!

listen to yourselves!

holy shyt! :crackup:


its a flower.

oh my god she will think your a smoothering afc now!

dont do it! :)
damn well your probably right.. i am so caught up with NOT being an afc that i probably am getting a little up tight.. might as well relax and just do as i want to do and if she leaves for any reason, fu-ck her.
 

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Do NOT send her flowers home, i repeat, DO NOT. Although you can bring a few wild flowers (i usually take 3 or 5) you find on the street or in a park. I did that a few times with the girls I dated in the last month and they found that super cute.
 
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