Advice on asking a Women store clerk out ?

[QB123]

I was over at a department store the other day buying shoes for my mothers birthday present..I went directly to the nearest store clerk who just so happen to be the most beautiful girl in the whole world (okay, okay, im exaggerating but she was amazing) Well anyway i asked her for some shoes and as she went back to the storage to get them..i was trying to figure out the best way to figure out if she was single or better yet maybe ask her out.. As i was about to pay and make my move... my father randomly came out of no where and totally killed my moment....I was in a lost for words..I thought i had the perfect moment to ask her out "but simply didn't know what to say"

i simply bought the shoes and left in disappointment ..

i felt like a lost my one chance...

and besides its not like I shop frequently at the women's department.. but what other ways or excuses can i find myself in front of her again to get a second chance?

or is it simply too late...

your advise and tips would be deeply appreciated


Thanks.

 

[ARrocket]

and besides its not like I shop frequently at the women's department.

Here's your solution.

Since you're not gonna go there again, there's nothing to be embarrassed about if she shoots you down. So, march on in there and get them digits. It can be as simple as saying "hey I thought you were interesting, I came back to meet you, I'm [insert name here]"

 

[Zarky]

wow, another person asking how to pick up working girls.

DON'T

This should be stickied. Fortunately I have a blog post on it:

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/11/15/dont-hit-on-women-who-are-paid-to-be-nice-to-you/

 

[juicywa]

wow, another person asking how to pick up working girls.

DON'T

This should be stickied. Fortunately I have a blog post on it:

http://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2011/11/15/dont-hit-on-women-who-are-paid-to-be-nice-to-you/

I just see it as... the girls are doing their job right if guys actually fall in love with them at first sight/interaction.

 

[bcolon]

Zarky, good article sir. And I totally agree. That's why I ignore and don't talk to any girl that is working because to me I'm not getting the real them. I'm just getting the work girl not the real girl.

I watch all my friends spit game to these broads when we go out and I look at them in disgust and say "all you guys are doing is feeding into her plan to slip more money out your wallet and to get you to come back". Why do you think the managers put all the girls they find attractive on the floor to greet customers? Right, because they know the men will flock to them. AFC's for that manner.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It's awesome when you ask for their number, they give it to you, and then you later realize what they gave you was the main number to the place where they work. Do yourself a favor and look up the number of the place before you ask for the phone number of one of the help, so at the very least you can catch it and call her out on that trick when she tries it.

 

[ilikecharlene]

Why is it wrong to ask her out?

in a date setting, you get to know the real her.

 

[Zarky]

You won't get to a date setting.

Brother, you're obviously very young. Go for it, get shot down a few times, and then wise up. Nobody ever learns from others, they have to make their own mistakes.

 

[nismo-4]

Simple case, and I covered it in my stickied thread's sequel.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192273

#47.

Wait until they're off, then go for them. :yes:

Case closed.

 

[zekko]

wow, another person asking how to pick up working girls.

DON'T

I completely agree with this. But somebody, somewhere must have successfully picked up a working girl. It shouldn't be any more difficult than cold approaching a 9, right?

You know who the OP should ask about this is Big Neil. He has a penchant for those types of girls you're not supposed to go for - bartenders, bar maids, waitresses, and the like.

 

[Falcon]

Gonna go against the grain here...

Although it is true what the posters say about working girls and how your chances lower, would you lose anything by going for it?

The worst thing that can happen is you get rejected... and your life returns to exactly how it was before you asked. Maybe you will feel embarrassed. But even then, you will feel better that you tried and you wont have a nagging "what if" bouncing around in your head.

When making a decision, it often helps to ask these three questions...

What is the worst that could happen?
What is the best that could happen?
What is most likely to happen?

Great for putting things in perspective. In this case, even if two of the answers are bad, the first question reveals such low risk that it is worth it unless she works very far away or it would take a lot of effort to visit her work again on your part.