"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Advice on aproaching two chicks

Jamal

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HeY, haven't approached girls in a mad long time and do have some anxiety...last approach was in september and just said hey watsup to a girl and just froze. There are these two girls that I know have interest in me (see them staring at me when I walk past them in the hallway) that I want to approach and get them to become Friends with benefits just to have sex with them. One of the girls is a junior and the other is a sophmore and I am a senior. I just want to get experience and gain some comfort after doing this. That way I can cold approach at malls and even if I fail on a approach I still have back up girls to go to lol. But starting tomorrow im planning on just saying "hey watsup, I am going to class, but I would kill myself if i got ova there and didnt come talk to you...hey watsup im ________. then tell them that they are adorable, and wanted to kno if they can hangout afta school to get to know each other. Just wanted to know your intake on this and if I am doing the right thing cause Im just a newbie basically.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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COD

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well heres some insight for ya.........WOMEN always venture out in groups. SO get used to approaching groups.

Make sure you engage both of them........and get the notion of wanting friends with benefits agenda out of your head. Women can sense U are on a mission, keep that on the downlow and go out and have a funtime.........then build the kino later on.

U will be fine........U should always remember USE IT OR LOSE it mind set. If its been a long time, its gonna take time to get back to being great.

Nuff said............rock on.
 
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When I approach two girls at once, I like to ask one of them questions about the other.

For example.


Me: Is this your friend?
Girl 1: Yeah[Sometimes they give more detail]
Me: Is she mean? She looks really mean.
Girl 2: Hey!
Girl 1: [Usually makes a funny comment about her friend]

If you say it in a fun way, it makes a good opener and you can get a good response.
 
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