"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Advice on aproaching two chicks

Jamal

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HeY, haven't approached girls in a mad long time and do have some anxiety...last approach was in september and just said hey watsup to a girl and just froze. There are these two girls that I know have interest in me (see them staring at me when I walk past them in the hallway) that I want to approach and get them to become Friends with benefits just to have sex with them. One of the girls is a junior and the other is a sophmore and I am a senior. I just want to get experience and gain some comfort after doing this. That way I can cold approach at malls and even if I fail on a approach I still have back up girls to go to lol. But starting tomorrow im planning on just saying "hey watsup, I am going to class, but I would kill myself if i got ova there and didnt come talk to you...hey watsup im ________. then tell them that they are adorable, and wanted to kno if they can hangout afta school to get to know each other. Just wanted to know your intake on this and if I am doing the right thing cause Im just a newbie basically.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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COD

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well heres some insight for ya.........WOMEN always venture out in groups. SO get used to approaching groups.

Make sure you engage both of them........and get the notion of wanting friends with benefits agenda out of your head. Women can sense U are on a mission, keep that on the downlow and go out and have a funtime.........then build the kino later on.

U will be fine........U should always remember USE IT OR LOSE it mind set. If its been a long time, its gonna take time to get back to being great.

Nuff said............rock on.
 
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When I approach two girls at once, I like to ask one of them questions about the other.

For example.


Me: Is this your friend?
Girl 1: Yeah[Sometimes they give more detail]
Me: Is she mean? She looks really mean.
Girl 2: Hey!
Girl 1: [Usually makes a funny comment about her friend]

If you say it in a fun way, it makes a good opener and you can get a good response.
 
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