Hoe Whisperer
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- Dec 13, 2020
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Hi All,
Just discovered the forum recently and it has been very helpful. I would say I am an intermediate when it comes to game and women, but was presented with a situation I have not been in before and need some advice on how to play it to get the outcome I want.
Background- I was FWB with this girl for a little over a year. Eventually, she wanted a "normal" relationship that I was not interested in so we went our separate ways. She quickly found a guy who suspiciously looks like a fat boring version of me and they have been together since. We hooked up twice in the first few months of their relationship, but have not been in contact for almost 2 years since. Fast forward to today when I get the following text:
I know this is out of the blue. I am sorry. But, truthfully, I've been thinking about you a lot. I know I have no right, but I really want to know how you are.
This year has been hard on everyone and I just wanted to see how you are holding up. I hope you are good. The virus has me worried about you
Anyways,, just wanted you to now I was thinking out you.
I was surprised since it had been so long and looking at her instagram she is still seemingly happy with the BF. I need advice on how to play this to hopefully get her back in my rotation. I have to go slow though because of COVID I take care of my susceptible family member so I can't really be trying to see her for until spring/summer.
On the one hand if I say things are awesome for me we won't really have anything to talk about and it could just fizzle, but if I tell her a sob story then she might want to keep talking, but not be as attracted. The truth is somewhere in the middle I am assuming that since before we really only got together to do one thing, on some level with her reaching out she wants that again. IDK as I said new situation and looking for advice.
Just discovered the forum recently and it has been very helpful. I would say I am an intermediate when it comes to game and women, but was presented with a situation I have not been in before and need some advice on how to play it to get the outcome I want.
Background- I was FWB with this girl for a little over a year. Eventually, she wanted a "normal" relationship that I was not interested in so we went our separate ways. She quickly found a guy who suspiciously looks like a fat boring version of me and they have been together since. We hooked up twice in the first few months of their relationship, but have not been in contact for almost 2 years since. Fast forward to today when I get the following text:
I know this is out of the blue. I am sorry. But, truthfully, I've been thinking about you a lot. I know I have no right, but I really want to know how you are.
This year has been hard on everyone and I just wanted to see how you are holding up. I hope you are good. The virus has me worried about you
Anyways,, just wanted you to now I was thinking out you.
I was surprised since it had been so long and looking at her instagram she is still seemingly happy with the BF. I need advice on how to play this to hopefully get her back in my rotation. I have to go slow though because of COVID I take care of my susceptible family member so I can't really be trying to see her for until spring/summer.
On the one hand if I say things are awesome for me we won't really have anything to talk about and it could just fizzle, but if I tell her a sob story then she might want to keep talking, but not be as attracted. The truth is somewhere in the middle I am assuming that since before we really only got together to do one thing, on some level with her reaching out she wants that again. IDK as I said new situation and looking for advice.
what's new with you?"