Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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advice on a gift

No.Danny

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....... sounds a bit rapey just a little :O
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well, 1st sorry for not replaying so long...I just wasn't in the mood..
IT's been half year now since she broke up with me...Asked her a 1000 times why doesn't she want me back, she says stuff like, it's better like that, her friends do the same things, and that she doesn't see me like that any more...

I'm an idiot, for going always out with her, always texting her... she really likes me as a friend, nothing more, we didn't make out for 2 months now...
And As mauser96 said...I tried that, but I always failed because im really do god damn attached to her and can't get myself busy not to think about her, because 99% of stuff I do I did it with her... It's just getting me insane...I failed the school year because of that...when there was a test I wasn't learning because I was in such a bad mood that I didn't want nothing but the bed or her.

I have no idea how to ignore her for a week or 2...
 

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source55 said:
Hello,
I don't want to suck it up to her...just something special to go with...
I bought her flowers last week...
I don't want her to think im buying her off.

So what do u think?
Yeah, it's a bad idea to get her a gift if you're trying to purchase affection. I don't know anything but I'd say burn her a mix CD of whatever songs chicks like. Do some indie songs on there too, not just stuff like 1D that she hears everyday :flowers:
 
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