No.Danny
Master Don Juan
We should. That is one if the main reasons this girl broke up with you. She has no respect for you because SHE WEARS THE PANTS SHE HAS THE BALLS.source55 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Blistex, yea those are my thoughts too. But, I really don't see her calling me back...No.Danny said:
She told me that when she left me : no matter what will happen, she will not be with me even I she would want to.
I don't know.. I'm just gonna try that...but im not gonna be too harsh, because that will just scare her away and make her think I moved on...and she will just accept that..even If she's gonna cry every day...That's how she is, she just wont show it ...
Let's focus on the situation now, and if I somehow get her back, then about that...
By the way i know that yea, but I figured it out when she left me.
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No.Danny
Master Don Juan
I have one question?? Why do you want her back. Did you ego take a hit?? This girl is not right for you.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
I can read right through the words. If this girl WANTED to be with you. You still would. But you can't accept that. You DON'T want help.source55 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
You don't get it. At the end of the day this girl is going to keep hurting you and you're going to keep acting like an AFC
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Master Don Juan
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ok some time has passed, And i don't wan't to explain everything... the point:
We got along well, she told me im the best and such, we get along really well...now the problem: she just want's me as a friend...should i back off and wait for her to cry for me, or talk normally with her and hope she will change her mind
We got along well, she told me im the best and such, we get along really well...now the problem: she just want's me as a friend...should i back off and wait for her to cry for me, or talk normally with her and hope she will change her mind
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
"You're the best" hahaha.
You're done. But your oneitis won't let you see this. Can I say I TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPEN??!!! I DON'T EVEN FEEL BAD FOR YOU CONSIDERING YOU'RE SO STUBBORN.
You're done. But your oneitis won't let you see this. Can I say I TOLD YOU THIS WOULD HAPPEN??!!! I DON'T EVEN FEEL BAD FOR YOU CONSIDERING YOU'RE SO STUBBORN.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
Troll. You're confused. They're referring to you. Last reply though. Doesn't matter WHAT she said. She wants to be friends. It's. Over.
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You need to realize that making her think that you moved on is exactly what you want. Even when that happens she will only give you some mixed signals to keep you as an orbiter. You need to actually move on, not to try to get her back, but because you won´t get nothing by getting back with an ex.
P.S. In my blue pill days, I used to draw my ex cats as well when she was losing attraction, hahahahahahahahahaha
P.S. In my blue pill days, I used to draw my ex cats as well when she was losing attraction, hahahahahahahahahaha
Considering you have not divulged everything, I may be slightly inaccurate in my interpretation of the events but it seems to me like this was a polite rejection, hence the your "the best" remark.source55 said:
Let us analyze the options you have available. If you act as if nothing occurred, you continue to be the "friend" she described you as and I cannot see how that improves your situation in any way, shape or form. So, that really only leaves withdrawing contact as the best option, not best because you will get her to like you more than as a friend but because there really is nothing left you can do.
Cheers.
Listen to these guys. devilkingx2 has some good rules (if she expects it, like for birthday or Christmas, you'd better). I will add one more, which is when she wants to impress her friends. "Look at Lorena's facebook page, her boyfriend bought her new diamond ear rings" (possibly because he is following devilkingx2's rules). Now you have buy your gf something because some of some other dude's behavior. "Something" means more expensive than what her friend got.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Okay, about the "youre the best"
She didn't say exactly this... I just summed all what she did... I dont know.
She also said: what would i do without u..
And she said she sleeps with my shirt that i borrowed her..
And agreed to go to my place next week, where we will bee getting drunk....
She didn't say exactly this... I just summed all what she did... I dont know.
She also said: what would i do without u..
And she said she sleeps with my shirt that i borrowed her..
And agreed to go to my place next week, where we will bee getting drunk....
I get the feeling you are inclined to try to get back on terms with your ex rather than moving on, and that's your choice. After all, this is only advice and you can do what you want with it.
You mentioned she is going to your place next week. So what I suggest is to escalate: kiss her, make out, go for the lay, etc. If she attempts to stop you, then I guess that is a good pretty good indication of how you should interpret her "what would i do without u" remark and that it is going to be an uphill battle to get yourself out of the friend zone.
You mentioned she is going to your place next week. So what I suggest is to escalate: kiss her, make out, go for the lay, etc. If she attempts to stop you, then I guess that is a good pretty good indication of how you should interpret her "what would i do without u" remark and that it is going to be an uphill battle to get yourself out of the friend zone.
We still didn't manage to get to my place, we just don't have time.. next week maybe...
But we were at a friends house party and we were drunk and making out...
I kind of think, she did it because she was drunk not that she wanted to do it WITH ME...
But we were at a friends house party and we were drunk and making out...
I kind of think, she did it because she was drunk not that she wanted to do it WITH ME...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.