averagejoe1980
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Hey ppl,
I am one of those nice guys I guess, I dont even like talking to chicks in a night club because im scared that if i talk to them they are just going to think that Im trying to pick them up and get in thier pants.
Anyways, I was told the other day that its not the nice guys that finish last, its the SHY guys I decided to do something about it. So Valentines day came, and I this girl at work ( jobsite ) caught my eye we both started smiling at each other, so i decided to send her some flowers. She got them, and 2 days later i caught up with her (due to her not being at work) spoke to her, she was overwhelmed that i sent her flowers and thanked me a few times throughout the conversation.... I asked if she had a boyfriend, she said she didnt, i said that i would like to get to know her better and asked if she would like to go out... she said that she works a lot and that she didnt have time for a boyfriend ( I knew that she had a few jobs because someone else had told me when i asked about her) she said that all she would be able to offer me was friendship. I said thats fine, whatever... I said its not like im asking for youre hand in marrige, i just wanna get to know you better is all!. she said well, coffee sounds good, and ive got your number so yeah. She seems very shy and embarrased.
My question is Im not sure if i should pursue this anymore or just leave it alone and see if she calls as she has my number. I dont have her number, but could call her later at work if i wanted to.
Tommorrow is my last day at the jobsite so i dont think ill get another chance to see her. Im not sure if i should just forget about it and move on or not.
-AverageJoe1980
I am one of those nice guys I guess, I dont even like talking to chicks in a night club because im scared that if i talk to them they are just going to think that Im trying to pick them up and get in thier pants.
Anyways, I was told the other day that its not the nice guys that finish last, its the SHY guys I decided to do something about it. So Valentines day came, and I this girl at work ( jobsite ) caught my eye we both started smiling at each other, so i decided to send her some flowers. She got them, and 2 days later i caught up with her (due to her not being at work) spoke to her, she was overwhelmed that i sent her flowers and thanked me a few times throughout the conversation.... I asked if she had a boyfriend, she said she didnt, i said that i would like to get to know her better and asked if she would like to go out... she said that she works a lot and that she didnt have time for a boyfriend ( I knew that she had a few jobs because someone else had told me when i asked about her) she said that all she would be able to offer me was friendship. I said thats fine, whatever... I said its not like im asking for youre hand in marrige, i just wanna get to know you better is all!. she said well, coffee sounds good, and ive got your number so yeah. She seems very shy and embarrased.
My question is Im not sure if i should pursue this anymore or just leave it alone and see if she calls as she has my number. I dont have her number, but could call her later at work if i wanted to.
Tommorrow is my last day at the jobsite so i dont think ill get another chance to see her. Im not sure if i should just forget about it and move on or not.
-AverageJoe1980