"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lil hooligan

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Okay so i will keep it short.

I am working away and have met a nice lass, she is also working away here at the same place.
Back home she only lives an hour away

I like this girl and think she is relationship material prob HB8

I have her number and want to get a date set up soonish
(we already exchange texts etc. and good IOI)

We are the same age with alot of the same interests.

info: She is with here with her friend (another lass) and we have already gone to dinner as the 3 of us, good ioi from her and pretty sure her friend was hinting about it

anyway she has already said she feels guilty leaving her friend, so how do i remove the friend and make it just us is the question? do i just ask her out, i have nothing to loose and so i game for anything, also just give me advice on what to do, idc about any ou shouldnt date co workers bs
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lil hooligan

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Well just got a text and I am meeting her and her friend again in like 20 mins so help would be appreciated haha
 
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Invite just her out. If she says something tell her that you would like to have time alone with her. If she goes for it you have interest. If not you have a buddy. She should be willing to leave her friend behind for a short date.
 
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