"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lil hooligan

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Okay so i will keep it short.

I am working away and have met a nice lass, she is also working away here at the same place.
Back home she only lives an hour away

I like this girl and think she is relationship material prob HB8

I have her number and want to get a date set up soonish
(we already exchange texts etc. and good IOI)

We are the same age with alot of the same interests.

info: She is with here with her friend (another lass) and we have already gone to dinner as the 3 of us, good ioi from her and pretty sure her friend was hinting about it

anyway she has already said she feels guilty leaving her friend, so how do i remove the friend and make it just us is the question? do i just ask her out, i have nothing to loose and so i game for anything, also just give me advice on what to do, idc about any ou shouldnt date co workers bs
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lil hooligan

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Well just got a text and I am meeting her and her friend again in like 20 mins so help would be appreciated haha
 
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Invite just her out. If she says something tell her that you would like to have time alone with her. If she goes for it you have interest. If not you have a buddy. She should be willing to leave her friend behind for a short date.
 
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