"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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genao

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I met a girl, slept at her house (didn't sleep with her probabily because of her friends who were there too) and she wanted to meet me another time.
I'm in good conversations with her and one night i found her kissing another guy, whom I've seen with her before.

She wants a date with me and finds me interesting, but I don't share girls, although she is my kind of girl.

Should I calll her out on that to make things clear?

Thanks in advance
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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usernamedox11

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She isn't exclusive with you. I wouldn't say anything. There's nothing wrong with what she did. But she sounds like a slut, though, and isn't worth a LTR. I wouldn't bring up the other guy, as it could just give her an excuse to not talk to you anymore or make you look needy. Now that you know what kind of person she is (slut), treat as such and just f**k her for as long as you can and don't think about getting into a relationship with her. Sluts are to be treated like sluts.

Oh, and make sure you use a condom.
 

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One. Never call a girl out. Extremely Unattractive.

Two. She is making out with another dude. Want to make out with you (as it seems). You do not like sharing girls and you still believe she is your kind of girl? You better think again. If it goes against your principles, than, I'm sorry to inform you, she is not your kind of girl.

My advice. F*ck her for the wh*re she is. If she don't do it with you, she will do with someone else. And you will be left to f*ck your own hand.

She is just not relationship material.

PS: And a personal note. Just be glad you saw her making out with this other dude. Many of the other girls you may hooked in the past, you were not "sharing" with other guys only because you haven't caught them doing it... Because they were "sharing" theirselfs!
 

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Everything depends on whether you want to keep dating her / be her bf. I figure you wouldn't have a problem fvcking her once. Remember that she is free to make out with guys just as you are free to make out with girls. So I would suggest you do not raise the issue until things are getting more serious. You are not at that point yet. "Dating" is essentially a non-exclusive thing, whereas "relationship" is the exclusive counterpart. Some women want exclusive dating as well, but I figure that's the type of women who are not very much in demand and are just looking for a relationship. They want to lock you down even before you have sex... just as you are trying to lock her down even when you haven't even kissed yet(? you didn't make that clear.)
 
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