Advice needed

[manish]

hey guys..

i,m originally from india...we all know india for low standard of living and all poverty..

i moved from india to singapore..8 months back..i liked the life here..but all my family is back in india.

my wife was pregnant with twins..yesterday we lost both of them..

i,m going back to india to see her...now there is a big question in-front of me..should i ever return back to singapore..

because i want to be with her...and i want to her to find job...because it will make her busy and it might help her to deal with this miscarriage.

but finding a job in singapore is tough..because she has no work ex...and singpore job market is very small and when she was here for 6 months..she did not get a job.

so i,m thinking of staying in india..where we can be together..with family..and plus we can get job easily there...

i,m not sure if i,m being emotional when taking this decision...what u guys think...please let me know

 

[penkitten]

if i was your wife, i would want you to be home too.
however, if you are working there because it offers you the best financial resources for your family, then you have to make the best choice for your family.
have you talked to your wife about it?

ps... sorry about the babies. i feel terrible for you guys.

 

[manish]

thanks man..

i have been to india with my wife..and she is doing ok now..

just some memories which hunt her.....

she wants me to go back to sing and to make some earnings.....

she will be joining me ..with in month...

thanks again